Let me think. Okay, the answer that I choose, I can make an example with the time that I was with my husband before he became a member and before we got married. Because he was smoking, and he was drinking. So I remember it was 1991, and then is where I told him that I don’t want to force you to leave what you’re doing. But I don’t want to see myself be married to a person who is smoking and drinking. Because there’s a disadvantage of that. So you have to choose whether we are in this journey together, or we have to have journey. So, and I said to him, “If you are willing to [inaudible] if you go to a friend, they are fun together, but you have to be disciplined, whether you are going to leave or not.” I even do an example that, I don’t know to leave things, most of the time, spending time with me. If you have to spend time with our friends, do whatever you’re doing, be sure that you must adjust. You must adjust for what you are doing.
If they buy whatever liquor, don’t say to them, “I want to leave.” Just say, “No, today I’m fine.” Just get used to that environment, because if you keep together with me, you’re going to leave what you used to do. You have to be on that boat with them. That was hard, maybe for me, and that was hard even for him.
I did. I did pray because of, you know—okay, I’m going to say, in Young Woman, the teacher who taught us, she always said to us, “The time you are [inaudible] date, you have to pray. Whether that person is the right person or not.” So I keep on [inaudible], as we’re together, doing that. In fact, I said, let me say, I convinced myself, that this person is the right person. So the only thing I have to show him, and then be supportive, not just to reject him, but just to be there, and then God will give me strength if he’s willing to change.